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Steven Mallorca posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 26, 2025
My name is Steve Mallorca, and I want to extend the deepest condolences and sympathy to Mrs. Grey, Alicia, Jason, and all of Mr. Grey’s family on this difficult day. It is with great sadness, but also great honor, that I’m here today with you all to celebrate the life of Seymour Grey, or as I called him very simply, and with much love, “Mr. Grey.”
I have been a friend of the Grey family for over 3 decades, starting when I befriended Jason, or Jay, all the way back at the start of college in 1991. So, I can honestly say that Jay is my family, and his family is mine. I’ve been bandmates with Jay since our college days, and being a band, especially one like ours, is like being in a family. I’ve been on several independent film shoots with Jay, and crews on those films are family. And, most of all, I was roommates with Jay for 5 years, the longest I’ve lived with anyone outside of my own blood family.
And living with Jay, I would see his parents every time they stopped by. Since I grew up in Illinois, I didn’t have family nearby, so it was always a great feeling for me to see Mr. and Mrs. Grey. Mr. Grey was literally a gentle giant, always smiling and checking up not only on Jay, but myself. I always felt comfortable and friendly with him, which makes sense, because he and Mrs. Grey reminded me of home.
I would always hear about Mr. Grey tending his garden, which my parents have been doing since I was a kid. Like my father, Mr. Grey was in a very technical and scientific profession and even held several patents. And oddly enough, both of these science-oriented fathers had sons went on to decidedly un-scientific careers in film, as well as music. And like my parents, I’ve seen nothing but wholehearted support from Mr. and Mrs. Grey for their son in the arts. In fact, Mr and Mrs Grey went to several of our band’s shows, when we were all younger. And it was Impossible to miss them, as Mr. Grey would usually tower over most of the crowd. But more importantly, it was impossible to miss their pride in their son, and their desire to support and cheer him on. So I really took comfort in their support of Jay, and I gladly took that as support for me and my endeavors as well.
I’ve long joked about some connection between the Midwest and New Jersey - my wife Cindy and her family is from New Jersey, and I have an overwhelming number of friends from New Jersey. So I shouldn’t have been surprised that Mr. Grey spent a lot of time going to school in the Midwest, in Wisconsin and Indiana - the states that literally surrounded my home state. So there are a lot of connections I felt with Mr. Grey.
But probably the most treasured connection was something that happened with some regularity over the years. Mr. Grey used to get Knicks tickets for at least one game each season, and I was lucky enough to go along with him and Jay for a few of them. Unfortunately, I think most of these games were when the Knicks weren’t so great. But despite that, I look back at these games fondly, as we would just hang out and watch basketball, eating hot-dogs, popcorn. It was like being transported back to childhood years - hanging out with my 4th grade buddy, going with him and his dad to the game, hanging out without much care in the world. And one specific moment, a specific image, has always been burned in my memory. One time, we decided to hang out after a game, at a hotel rooftop bar in Koreatown, a block away from Madison Square Garden. Always down to hang out and spend time with his son, Mr. Grey came with, and we had a good old time. So much so, that we lost track of time and Mr. Grey realized that he had to catch the train back to New Jersey, which unfortunately was in 2 minutes. Mr. Grey was willing to wait another hour or so, but somehow we decided that we could make it if we ran like crazy, and somehow Mr. Grey as down for this. Counting the years, I’m estimating he was in his ‘60s, so I’m not sure I’d be willing or able to be doing such a sprint, but Mr. Grey was up for it. So we all ended up running with him into Penn Station to try to catch the train - it was so silly and giddy, and we just started to crack up laughing, and I just remember looking over and seeing Mr. Grey with the biggest smile. And we made the train!
I look back at how present Mr. Grey was, and how much he supported and just loved to hang out with Jay. It was like my parents were for me. And it was something I also wanted to emulate as I became a parent. After having kids, Cindy and I didn’t see him and Mrs. Grey as much as we would have liked. But we were very happy when we visited them in New Jersey and brought our first born child there to meet everyone. We have a great photo of Mr. Grey holding Jasper in his lap, a huge smile on his face. That smile is how I always remember him, and will continue to remember him. I know he’ll have a great seat in heaven, and be watching Knicks games from up above. And most important, he’ll be watching and cheering on Jason, Alicia, and Mrs. Grey, as he always has.
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Monday, March 17, 2025
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Most of us have role models in life, Uncle Glen (Seymour) was one of mine. Not that I was the nephew from the neighborhood, I wasn’t! I was simply his much younger first cousin, once removed who perceived him as a “mythical” high achiever..
From a remote Jamaica village to undergrad and grad science degree, Uncle Glen was humble, diligent, responsible and always goal orientated. I saw this firsthand when as his 20 something partly tasked with overseeing the care of his father (my Uncle Nijah) until his passing. Uncle Glen was the lead sibling directing resources, making regular inquiries and visits with consistency and empathy.
Rest in Peace Uncle Glen.
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Jennifer Golson posted a condolence
Saturday, March 15, 2025
Alicia and I used to work together, and we’ve been friends for a long time. A couple of decades? I didn’t get to know Mr. Grey until I joined Christ United Methodist. By then, he was retired and had pulled back from his many church activities, and I never heard him talk about them. It was years before I learned of his achievements.
I think that’s a testament to Mr. Grey’s humility. He was my friend’s dad, a tall and dignified gentleman, who doted on his wife and kids. He was kind and always offered a smile, even when I tried to crack a joke that usually wasn’t funny.
He didn’t put on airs, and I suspect I never would have known he was “Dr. Grey, the chemist” if Alicia hadn’t mentioned it only in passing years after we met.
Over the years, the Greys welcomed me into their family. If you remember Leave it to Beaver, I’m Eddie Haskell to Alicia’s Wally Cleaver and one of these days, she’s going to rub off on me. Mr. and Mrs. Grey were like salt and pepper shakers: You didn’t see one without the other. Mr. Grey struck me as a man who was very salt of the earth. Steady and laid back. Mrs. Grey’s the pepper, adding a bit of spice to life wherever she goes. Alicia and Jason reflect them both.
Mr. Grey was a loving and comforting presence. Even Puffy, Alicia’s cat, took to him, choosing Mr. Grey’s lap over the rest of the family. (Sorry, Alicia.)
They have a strong family bond that I will always admire, and I’m grateful for the opportunities to tag along and for their support.
I saw how this family’s love was the foundation for their success. Alicia in her careers in journalism, the ministry and now as an emotional wellness practitioner. Jason in film and video production and music. Mrs. Grey in education and her many leadership roles with United Methodist Women. And I was awed to hear of Dr. Grey’s achievements in science, research and development.
They always kept each other close, whether Alicia was in Paraguay, Mrs. Grey was on the road or Jason was in NYC. Even after they made the difficult decision to transition Mr. Grey to Parker, they remained close-knit, visiting him in the nursing home and hosting parties for him there. They brought him home for weekends to church. I remember seeing him shed tears because he was happy. My new favorite family picture is a recent one of Mr. and Mrs. Grey in their Christmas sweaters, and Mr. Grey has a little frou-frou dog perched on his lap instead of Puffy or another cat.
Mr. Grey remained distinguished even while at Parker. I had the chance to visit with him and Alicia when searching for a place to put my mom. They both showed me around. I could see that dementia was taking its toll, but he was still gracious. He still smiled and was even more talkative, which was fun to see.
All I can say now is thank you, Mr. Grey, for being such a loving foundation for your family and friends. We know this isn’t good-bye, and he’ll continue to live on.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Golson
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Tuesday, March 4, 2025
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Sunday, February 2, 2025
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Robert Reid donated to American Cancer Society Inc
Saturday, February 1, 2025
Millie, Jason, and Alicia,
I will continue to pray for you during this difficult time. I trust and believe the Lord will comfort and strengthen you. Please accept our sincere condolences. We will always remember Seymour's for his kind and gentle manner.
Robert and Christine Reid
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Giulia Armentano planted a tree in memory of Seymour Grey
Saturday, February 1, 2025
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Alicia Grey uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 31, 2025
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Alicia Grey uploaded photo(s)
Friday, January 31, 2025
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Friday, January 31, 2025
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Patricia Davis posted a condolence
Thursday, January 30, 2025
Millie, I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one; I pray that God wrap his arms around you and your family and give you peace.
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Wednesday, January 29, 2025
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In memory of my beloved brother Glen. You were a fantastic brother and an all-around wonderful person. God rest your soul.
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Wednesday, January 29, 2025
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VICTORIA AGWUEGBO posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Seymour was a good man, a man of faith, who believed so much in God, Seymour had a Goodheart, He loved good and hated evil.
On the day Seymour passed, he had a premonition of his death, He told three different care partners that he was going to die that day peacefully, and he called his mother's name 'miss jane' severally, we tried to distract from saying it severally, but he kept saying it. He saw her sitting in the chair in his room at some point he told us to tell her to go. We couldn't see her; He was the only one that saw her.
we were so confused and shocked on the news of his demise, I thought you will go to the hospital and come back but you didn't.
Seymour it was a privilege to know you and care for you, in all we give God thanks for a life well lived.
God gives and God takes.
I must also thank your family, your wife and kids for always being there for you, they visited regularly, took you for appointments and made sure you never lacked anything. May God bless and keep you all.
Rest in peace Seymour and you will forever be in our hearts, and we thank God for a life well lived. ADIEU.
Victoria Agwuegbo, RN.
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Marvis Rey posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Seymour was a very pleasant and spiritual man he was a beacon of light on Apple Blossom we enjoy the years we spent with him, his love for music conversations, laughter and dancing will be missed Affectionately called UNCLE SEY take your flight to your hevenly home and rest in Jesus arms you will be missed !
My deepest condolences to Millie, Jason, Alicia and his entire family may he rest in eternal peace.
Marvis Rey CNA Apple Blossom!
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Nancy Drake posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 29, 2025
Seymour and my dad were both chemists working at Colgate Palmolive when my dad invited Seymour and Millie to attend Christ UMC. Both my parents claimed the honor of bringing them to Christ UMC though!
Like many others my paradigm for the story of the three wise men has and always will include the majestic vision of costumed Seymour moving down the center aisle of church!
Rest in peace, Seymour.
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Robert Reid posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2025
Millie, Jason, and Alicia,
I am saddened about Seymour. During the brief time I knew Seymour, it was obvious that his priority was his family. I know hie will always be in your hearts. I will keep his memory firmly embedded in mine. I pray the Lord will continue to guide and bless you.
Robert and Christine Reid
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Elsa Mortensen posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 28, 2025
Mr. Seymour was one of the nicest persons that I met at Christ United Methodist Church in Piscataway. When he played the role of one of the three kings at Christmas time he was perfect for the role sounding so royal and dignified. But what really made him special to me was when my step father Frank Capone was having health issues with his COPD Mr. Grey always took the time to sit with him at refreshment time after church and have conversations with him. They became fast friends even though they Frank was at least 20 to 25 years older. Frank always appreciated Mr. Grey's friendship . I will never forget that, seeing the two of them sitting together. Also I would remember to watch where the Greys sat so you could have a view of the front of the sanctuary do to Mr. Grey being so tall. You made sure to sit in front of them. May you RIP Mr. Seymour Grey. I know God reserved a special place for you sir.
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Monday, January 27, 2025
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Monday, January 27, 2025
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Alicia Grey uploaded photo(s)
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Monday, January 27, 2025
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Vernon Coulon posted a condolence
Monday, January 27, 2025
My impression of Seymour is that he was "quiet," a man of few words. But always with a smile and a twinkle in his eye. It brought me great joy to see how much he cared for and delighted in his wife and children. You could see the evidence in his quiet smile when he referred to them and interacted with them. A surprise to me was that Seymour could cook! I don't know if this was my brother-in-law Seymour's favorite recipe but I remember visiting with him and family once and he was cooking goat. Wow!! Delicious!
You will be missed Seymour but thank you for the gift you left us with--the memories you created with your loving wife; and we get to see you in your beautiful daughter and handsome son who both carry your flame of intelligence and quiet confidence. You did good. You did the Lord's work and what joy it will be when we meet again in God's kingdom in paradise.
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Kathia Ledford posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2025
Uncle Glen was a shining star of wisdom and insight. I was inspired by his accomplishments and relentless pursuit of excellence. He always supported me in monumental life moments and for that I am eternally grateful.
He was a kind as he was tall in stature. First impressions of him were that he was very quiet, but after a few conversations his sense of humor became evident. I have many memories of him which bring a smile to my face.
Uncle Glen lived a life of purpose, led with heart and left a legacy of love, inspiration and excellence. He will be missed very much, but his spirit will always be remembered.
In Loving Memory,
Kathia
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Patrick Getty posted a condolence
Sunday, January 26, 2025
I worked with Seymour for a number of years in Fabric Care. He was always very pleasant to work with. My deepest sympathy to the family.
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Greg Woodson posted a condolence
Saturday, January 25, 2025
I too worked at Colgate Palmolive and had the privilege and benefit of working with Seymour on our global Fabric Care business for many years. As Vice President of Global Fabric Care and then a president of Global HomeCare (which included Fabric Care), Seymour and regularly partnered in projects to meet consumer needs. Seymour was a great person as he was caring, reflected the highest integrity and worked with the Team to achieve results that at a minimum met expectations and frequently exceeded expectations.
God Bless you Seymour and may you Rest In Peace.
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Sushama Mankad posted a condolence
Saturday, January 25, 2025
I worked with Seymour, me and him discussed meaning of life, I really enjoyed his conversation
God bless him and his family.
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Elizabeth posted a condolence
Friday, January 24, 2025
A remarkable person and a great loss to a loving family. My sympathies to all. Prayers ongoing.
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Thursday, January 23, 2025
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